The lesson I learned is that not only is it important to forgive those who wronged you, but it is even more important to forgive yourself for the wrongs you have done. It will not get you anywhere to keep punishing yourself for something that passed.

What happens to men when they tie the knot? Why do they change dramatically? Some change to the better, while some to the worst, in comparison to who they were showing themselves to be before marriage. Every case is different, not all men are the same, however, the common denominator is that they do change.

A question many couples ask when they hit a solid wall in their relationship. Whether they have been dating for years, living together, or married with children. There are many common influences that cause the end result of a lack of intimacy and an apparent detachment. Just as intimacy took some time to be built, it also took some time to be lost.

Every woman holds secrets that she keeps locked in her heart. She does not speak of them to anyone. Only she knows how she feels. Because only she endured what she decided to endure.

It’s not like this woman wanted the suffering. But she chose it. Why did she? Is the better question to be asked. What made her sacrifice herself?

This is the million dollar question: why don’t we?  What stops us from taking action. What blinds us from seeing the signs of things going downhill? Why do we only notice when things have gotten really bad. It’s not like we are not aware. We can see things are changing and not the same, but it’s like we just watch as a spectator, as our life unfolds and take different turns. One day we may reach a point of no return and walk away from it all.