… imagine you thought you knew someone for the longest time. You interacted on a close level. You lived through good days and bad days. You thought you had each other’s backs. For the longest time, you were under the impression, the feelings were mutual. Well, you didn’t think it on your own. It was expressed and shown in different ways. Only to get the shock of your life one day, when …

So why do we hold ourselves to such impossibly high standards? How could we have known better if we never tried? How could we understand what works without making mistakes?

What do you want your face to show when you’re old and gray. How do you want your old-age years to look like? You are creating it right now.

It may not be easy though, because you may have to make some changes that you didn’t anticipate. It may cause you some temporary pain. But it’s the kind of pain that you can control. It’s the kind that you can endure and not fall apart. You know this by now because you have been there, and done that.

Let me describe to you what happens behind those closed doors, that you think no one else knows about. And no, I was not a fly on your wall, I just know exactly what life with a Narcissist looks like, because I have been there too.